Yes Chris, trips to DV or anywhere where you might need to interact much w/ anybody or anything is a great idea to bail on now and in the foreseeable future.
As the current administration completely dropped the ball on testing, with consider time of warning, it's too late essentially to rely on testing to contain the virus, though we certainly want to do as much as we can. The key, is NEVER transferring anything from POSSIBLE sources of contamination to possible depots for transmission. One must assume EVERY SURFACE possibly touched by anyone, coughed on by anyone, etc might contain live virus. Fomite transmission appears to be days on certain types of surface, for example packaging/cardboard/etc. This includes any items brought into the house, for example groceries, etc. I took a 40m ride the other day and stopped by a shell station to buy gasoline. The only thing that I touched was touched by my gloved hand, which was carefully removed so I could pull my wallet out of my pocket, slip the card in the slot, pull it out, and put it back in my wallet and pocket. When I returned home my gloves were removed and put on my motorcycle seat and will remain there for probably probably another 2 weeks. I'll still consider them potentially contaminated. If you took your FIL to the hospital I dare say you've been in the heart of concentrated contamination, God help our HC workers who I'm sure are getting to a very similar space that soldiers during D-Day or other combat situations get where you just accept it's largely fate that will determine your future and plunge ahead hoping. Or just stay home, and this is happening now w/ ER docs/nurses.
Yes, it's going to get far worse than it is today and quicky, but there is an end at some point, w/ lots of casualties including a long term hit on most aspects of our consumer economy along the way.
Do everything in your power to reduce transmission to anyone including yourself. We do have a growing battalion of people who will be immune to COVID-19 after they've tested positive and recovered, especially those w/ mild cases. These folks can now interact with sick and well people provided they follow the same STRICT rules of how to reduce transmission, and they can be the people who repopulate the economy as able. In the HC environment they really don't need masks nor eye protection which frees up resources for others who need it.